It was years before I even knew this woman existed as she was not in most family photographs. I know she was blond-haired and blue-eyed and apparently made much of this to my dark grandmother who took more after her Sephardi heritage. I know she was a very successful Head Nurse at a hospital but collapsed entirely when her father forced her to return home and take care of him. I knew she spent the rest of her life in a psychiatric facility, where she liked to play the piano. They did not tell Grandma when she had died until much later.